The Place Of Time In A Relationship

Time has many places, every activity of man is controlled by time, but here I want to talk about the place of time in a relationship.

Jesus commanded we love everyone even those who hate us, so love is a free thing for those who deserve it and those who don’t deserve it, but when it involves a relationship then a responsibility is attached; this responsibility weighs in on the time factor.

It isn’t getting into a serious relationship that matters but making something positive out of that relationship whether it lasts or ends, in a situation where you didn’t make anything good out of the relationship you have wasted an important unit of your life, the time.

If you started falling in love 18 years with wrong persons for five times, before you realise it you’re 30 years.

If it repeats 10 times, then you will be almost 40 years, you know what it means? The uterine walls are already showing signs of egglessness.

Suitable suitors came asking after you, you told them you were in a serious relationship, they left, relationships with unserious persons will yield no result.

Ils sont venu de vous voir, et ils se ont posés des questions, elle est qui? Elle est libre? mais les gens ont dit que tu es très occupée avec un mec, pour ça, ils sont bougé.

Regardez ça, mais aussi, calculez vous bien, dix années sont perdu chez Don Juan. Ten good years of your life spent with the wrong persons, who should be blamed? Those play boys or you?

You’re a woman, starting from 18 years, any time you invest in a relationship that didn’t end well took away a good portion of your life, so I say to you, don’t be too quick to start a relationship, first observe, research and draw a conclusion.

Don’t relate matters and effects in a relationship like you are a man, don’t make the mistake of comparing yourself with men, men are gods even at 70 years a man still has a domestic importance.
We live in a world where men are attracted to younger maidens, but at 45 years, what’s the domestic worth of a single lady?

At 25 years, old age sets in, from 27 towards 30 years the evidence appears on her face, toes and tendons, cream and makeup can hide the wrinkles on the face, but what about the toes and tendons? many don’t need to ask how old are you at this stage.

For the men old age sets in at 60 years, you see the gap, and the reason you shouldn’t sit and be wishing you are a man.

I have nothing against relationship/courtship, Joseph was in a courtship with Mary for about 8 years, Mary gave birth to Jesus at 19 years and Joseph was about 50+ years, do you notice the gap, it shows a man can always get relationship right at any age, but it isn’t same with a woman because of something I call domestic age, make use of every good chance in every good relationship per se.

Some today is their future, some tomorrow is their future and some yesterday was their future, you have to follow your timing.

I for one have nothing against anyone irrespective of where you fall in, old or young, but what I want every woman to know is, there’s a factor we call time and a gap I call domestic age, pay attention to these two and remain ever relevant.

-Kanayo Ebuka