You May Not Find A Loyal Spouse When You’re Rich

In modern times many go for already made man, many prefer already made woman in terms of marriage, some men are quick to settle down with a working-class lady, some women are quick to say “Yes” to an already made man, no one wants to tango and build, they desire an already built island.

It’s become a common trend, if you’re still building your future only very few will believe in you, but the moment favor smiles on you, look you would see clusters of bees hovering around the petal for some nectar, c’est la vie “Such is life”

If she is the working class, he becomes loyal or pretends to love because of her net worth, all the play is only for her income and not her person.

She may be loyal to you, I speak the truth if you try her loyalty it may be due to your financial muscle and not your person, to find a woman who will love you for you is an adventure, to find a man who will love you for you is a huge job.

Marriage is a union of loyalty, love and respect, but most people see it as a union of what to gain, if the pocket dries, his/her loyalty and respect would varnish to your surprise.

She accepted you and you’re feeling lucky or being loved, check yourself what is special about you not out there, can you see anything she can’t get out there? no, the only special thing about you is your pocket, nothing else, if you had removed the weight of your bank account in the first place she wouldn’t have been anywhere close to you.

To find a loyal spouse don’t let him/her know what you are worth during your years of searching, anyone who accepts you knowing you’ve nothing or you’re building up would surely stay true to loyalty in all circumstances.

Riches command loyalty you know, many people are deceived by it, s/he may not be there in your life because of the person I call you, but because of the person I call your pocket.

I was talking with someone about to get married five years ago, she said: “I know I don’t love him much, but I believe with time the love will grow, I am marrying him because of the too many problems in my family, I would want to see a means to help my family if I marry him” her marriage is purely based on what to gain, not on loyalty or love, she married his pocked not him, if tomorrow her expectations aren’t met as duly deserved then the regard she has held in pretentious loyalty may erupt and her true concealed reason would be felt by the man who feels he’s in love without knowing he’s just a cash cow.

When a woman or a man accepts to partner with someone in a union of marriage based on riches even if s/he isn’t doing some things right there won’t be any complaint, because riches appease every wrong, but if his/her stay isn’t tied to riches s/he may not tolerate it all. Someone who truly loves you will always correct, counsel and advice you whenever you make a mistake.

Before Conor McGregor became a boxing Champion he had nothing but a loyal wife who loves him for him, she worked to keep the home moving, took care of the bills, while she encouraged him to go on training every day, Conor on his part understood the stress of a woman taking care of domestic expenditure all by herself, so he ate free meals at the training square to save her the penny of sourcing for two mouths to feed.

A few years after his hard work was rewarded, he won a boxing championship which came with millions of dollars and contracts, still, she didn’t ever ask him for anything despite the fact he’s become a millionaire, she kept supporting him to go further and achieve it all, she came into his life just to love, support and be loyal to him in richness and poverty.

If you are still single may you find that woman who will be loyal to you for you and not for your pocket, may you find that man who will be loyal to you for you and not for your working-class status.

If you find him you are blessed, if you find her you are blessed, let there be graces to find true loyalty and love in the heart of your husband or wife.

– Kanayo Ebuka