You’ll Be Fine: A lioness Wounded By Lions May Hardly Heal

A lioness wounded by lions may hardly heal, the heart is so fragile, it wasn’t made to break, but when it encounters a situation that forces it to break it becomes stronger and better to withstand further life’s challenges.

Set rules of involvement on the onset, if anything goes wrong you won’t be badly hurt, at least you would still have some pieces of you to pick and move on, but when you give in all yourself what pieces will be left to pick and move on?

When you set no boundaries, without knowing it, you will give in your all, you’ll make every commitment beyond necessary, financially, emotionally, spiritually, and throw in your precious time, you were focused on developing another person, hoping you’ve found a wonderland.

The surprise of heartbreak can render a young girl’s heart emotionally useless, emotional heartbreak isn’t something worth experiencing, at that beginning silently be ready for the best or the worst.

Love is beautiful, but at times it comes with its happiness or sadness, you’ve to he ready for any.
When you set no rules, when you don’t know what you want, it’s like connecting a node to a wrong channel, halt further mistakes, give yourself some break to understand yourself, and what you want, let the past be, don’t measure the future on the scale of the past.

Too many relationships creates a conflicting desire, it makes it difficult to understand yourself, even when the right person stands before you, you can’t see it, because your mind is wobbling in the ups and downs of past emotional denouement.

Love carefully, understand your decisions carefully, if at all make carefully mistakes when it becomes necessary to say goodbye.

Love less or more. Understand yourself more. To make the right choice after failed relationships isn’t always an easy one, everyone appears like the former.

Uniqueness is the fuel of choice, when you see nothing unique in someone, they would appear common and less of a choice. Too many relationships destroy the taste bud of uniqueness.

Being too fast in matters of love often results in surprises. it’s possible to find love everywhere, but it isn’t possible to find that type that won’t hurt everywhere, be slow, and I say be slow to love.

If you come to that bridge of reality where you understand for all this while it has been unreal, just move one, if your heart breaks, learn to be slow in matters of love, and keep the faith, in the end you’ll be fine and better.

Kanayo Ebuka