A Pearl In A Shit

She’s a pearl sold out to a shit due to poverty and the greed of her mother who masterminded the bid.
Age gap isn’t a problem, Adam was way older than Eve, Abraham was 10 years older than Sarah, when Sarah departed he married another, he was about 90 years older than Keturah(wife and concubine).

Age gap doesn’t matter when it’s a deliberate choice not influenced or coerced by any circumstance, Joseph engaged Mary at 12 years, she gave birth to Emmanuel at about 20 years when Joseph was above 50, the gap was around 30 years, David was older than his last wife with something close to 60 years gap, it has been so from the beginning, there must be age gap between the man and the woman, from 1 year to any productive number.

It’s allowed for the man to be older than the woman, no number mentioned, nature made it so from the beginning, biology made it so, the Bible supports it, I have nothing against Ned-Regina’s age gap, but based on the fact she did it out of poverty, then there’s a clause of age.

Our forefathers did the same, my grandfather remarried when his first wife departed, the age gap was about 70 years, he lived above 100, Celine Dion did the same, Bianca did the same, Ojukwu was like her grandfather, it was a deliberate decision, so nothing wrong about it both in ancient and modern time.

Bianca’s decision to marry Ojukwu was based on the person Ojukwu not based on wealth, she’s from a rich home, private jet and billions didn’t sway her, her family could afford it, when a young girl makes up her mind to marry a man old enough to be her grandfather, it’s no problem, but let her decision only rely on the person not anything material.

I share with you what I saw concerning her in a vision yesterday, she’s a pearl in a shit, the decision to marry Ned wasn’t hers but her mother’s; her mother’s greed and Regina’s poverty mindset.

What did I see? She’s a pearl in a shit, I saw her embrace her husband Ned, standing at the back of Ned and looking at Regina’s face, she roughened it like someone embracing a log of shit, her hands hanging in the air like, “I don’t want to touch this shit.”

She’s a young mother living in hard pretense, she comes to the social media to say words to console the wealthy misfortune her mother sold her into.

How would you feel when someone throws a shit at you? Or forces you to sit close to a shit, the private jet, the golden jewelry, exotic cars and billions can’t beat that irritating feeling.

Learn this young woman, money can’t make you feel comfortable where your heart isn’t comfortable, you can only but pretend.

If Regina is from a wealthy home her mother wouldn’t have sold her this way, it’s a decision inspired my poverty and greed on both sides.

I discuss ideas behind matters not persons, from time to time her mother tries to defend her decision ceeding her daughter to a man by persuasion, it’s psychological, she knows her daughter is a pearl in a shit, so she says all that to encourage her in the situation.

?But the question is how long can she hold on in this shit.

Anyone who believes money is everything is poor, if you check, such statements are made by girls from poor homes, they haven’t had a taste of any affluence, so when marriage offers that opportunity they close their eyes and take it without putting into consideration any other thing.

It mostly applies in Africa, it’s rare in developed countries where there is no social gap between the rich and the poor, you cannot woo a white girl to marry you with billions, and jets, she can fly a jet with few dollars in her pocket, she has access to a multi billion infrastructure provided by the government, so what can she do with the billion in exchange of her happiness?

But in Africa it’s different, if you want to marry the most beautiful girl in the uptown go get a Benz, that’s the only conviction to win her.

Most of the marital decisions in Africa are inspired by poverty, not personality, not love in most cases.
When you hear a girl say money is everything, observe her, she’s from a poor home, when she says love is nothing let me marry him with time I will start to love him, with time love will grow, girls who say any of these are from poor homes.

Even though you’re from a poor home, let not your mindset be poor, let not your decisions be driven by poverty.

When you’re from a poor home and your mindset is poor you are finished.
That you’re poor doesn’t mean you are poor, you become poor when you have accepted to be ruled roughly by decisions that are out of place and poor, poverty isn’t forever, you can come out of, it’s only but a temporal state.

Being poor or rich is like putting on a dress, you can wear it off any time, change into another, you have the dress, the dress doesn’t have you, you aren’t the dress and the dress isn’t you, the poverty doesn’t own you, and you don’t own the poverty, so it isn’t forever to be condemned in poverty.

Be a girl, a girl of yourself,
Be a pearl, not a pearl in a shit.

-Kanayo Ebuka