Domestic Wife vs Career Wife

This morning in a vision, I was in the midst of children, usually I often ask children questions, so I started with, “What’s your name, tell me about…” One after the other they gave pretty answers, until it came to the turn of one.

This one looked outstanding, hair well plaited, blouse neat, skirt flamboyant, shoes classic, a very beautiful child, no need to ask what’s your name, I nicknamed her Fine, I asked her, “Fine what can you do for us” and she gave a wonderful presentation, it was touché, so I asked her again, “Who taught you all these” smiling she responded, “My mum” remember she didn’t say my teacher but my mum.” I know the child in question, she’s the daughter of my friend, she’s the picture of what I have shared with you, I draw out a message from this.

Often I use some information I got from the spiritual to interpret matters of the physical, because the spiritual seats above the knowledge of mortals, all the other children that answered before her their mothers are career women, they hardly stay at home, very scarce, in the morning off they go, to return in the late evening, they care about providing for the children, and care less about raising the children.

Being a domestic wife isn’t being unemployed or not doing anything, there’s no greater job for a wife better than rasing her children in the proper way, and having that needed time to do it, of what use earning a good salary when your children lack proper training, what can the money do? Can it repair the damages.

I am not against women working, but the nature of the job should give her the time to look after her children, for this is her primary assignment, not making money to support the family, when the children are of age enough to look after themselves then she may engage in full time career pursuit, it’s going to be a win on both sides; at home and at work.

It’s possible to combine career and child upbringing, nothing wrong with that, but isn’t always easy, so you have to plan very well to win in your career pursuit and at home(raising your children in a proper manner).

Again, remember to marry a woman with brain because children grow around their mother, if she got no brains definitely it will be translated into the children, she mustn’t necessarily have a Degree but at least she can write, read very well, and articulate issues in your absence.

No one can raise your children for you, no teacher, no nanny, so don’t you trust anyone, every mother should endeavor to be there for her children especially at childhood(from age 1 to 14 years at least).

Observe the mother hen, she doesn’t leave her children at home and go in search of what to feed them with, observe the animal kingdom, mothers are so protective, humans should do better, when the mother lion goes out to hunt, she leaves her children in the company of their father, so if you are a lioness(a career woman), then you should have a lion watching over the children.

I have nothing against career women, but if you have got children, know they are more important than your career, if not why did you bring them to the world in the first place, ready to have a child is ready to be there and care for the child.

If you ask me to declare between domestic wives and career wives, I will salute domestic wives, “but” if her career gives her chance to combine her domestic activities and work then she can go for it, if not let her reconsider.

Those days during IT my friend her sister got a job at Zenith or UBA bank, she told her husband, he asked, “What’s the salary?” She mentioned, and her husband said, stay back I will pay you that every month, banking job the way it’s doesn’t allow mothers look after their children, it has destroyed many children.

Your career shouldn’t come between you and your domestic activities, every mother should be more domestic than completely career-minded, you have a husband, and his duty according to the Bible is to make provisions while the woman takes care of the home, yes I know at times the economy might be too harsh for the man to bear the responsibility alone, but bringing the woman into the equation to assist in provisional balance should not remove her from her primary role, which is domestically oriented.

-Kanayo Ebuka