Is There An Independent Woman?

We often hear behind every successful man there’s woman, but the correct saying is, “Behind every successful woman there’s a man” This is the summary of Proverbs 31.

There’s no independent woman anywhere, there’s no single woman that exists or existed that personally made herself what she’s, every successful woman was made by a man.
God uses people to make us what we are, the richest and strongest women were helped by a man or men, that’s how it works.

Deborah was a Prophetess, a Judge or more like a leader in Israel at some point in time, in Judges 4:4, she mentioned her husband Lapidoth, it wasn’t just a mere reference but a recognition of the man who helped her to become what she was in that époque in Israel.

The name Deborah is a feminine name derived from D’vorah, a Hebrew word meaning “bee” it has a direct context to the “Queen bee” the named led her, she was more like a Queen for 40 years, under her reign there was peace in Israel, she defeated their enemies, remember in all that, there was a man behind her, Lapidoth.

There’s nothing like an independent woman, it doesn’t exist, it’s an adjective women who don’t want to recognise the support they received from men use.

Every successful woman was either materially, spiritually, intellectually or emotionally helped; there is a man or men who helped or are helping her.

Even if you own a company or a business, it didn’t fall from the sky, examine the process that led to that men are in the equation, God worked through them to get you there.

The summary of Proverbs 31 is behind every successful woman, there is a man, not just a man, but a “good” man.

Be thankful to God and be appreciative of the men He worked through to help you, no woman made herself what she’s, the sources of every woman’s success are from God and men or a man, Deborah recognised Lapidoth.

-Kanayo Ebuka