Leaving To Live

Marriage is earthly, it’s for a short moment not forever, it all ends here, which is better? To leave and live or to stay and die?

Yes we know there’s no room for corporal divorce but there are room for principle divorce.
If someone lied in order to marry you, and you later discovered such a life-taking-lies, you’re completely free to walk away if you can’t live with the lie, no condemnation, no law holds you bound, at the first time there was no marriage, consider it you never married.

Check the list there are famous preachers who aren’t living with their wives because the marriage was toxic, God is still their Father, presently there are famous anointed preachers and teachers of the Gospel who left their former marriage and got another, God is still using them mightily, they didn’t actually divorce, they simply left to live and fulfil the purpose of their calling.

I know some church people will begin to brainwash you saying it doesn’t matter, for better for worse, but if eventually your funeral comes, they will put 2k in envelope there ends it, so listen to nobody, listen to the truth and do the right thing.

There are some lies you can’t pretend to live with in marriage, every morning you wake it takes 10 years out of your life.

Although it’s written in the Law, God hates divorce, but we aren’t any longer under the Law, despite the fact we aren’t under this Law, does it give room for divorce without a dire reason? No.

“God hates divorce” but this is only applicable when there’s no clear reason for the divorce, but when there are clear reasons, we may not still hold to the saying, God hates divorce; God wants you to live above all things, above marriage, marriage has no mean value to delete a life, He is more interested that you live, it isn’t pleasing to end one’s precious life in a toxic marriage, if you’re staying back, be double sure your life is safe.

Within you you know you’re dying slowly in toxicity of insane behaviours and attitudes, should you at all stay till such a moment the church will gather and sing “It’s well on your funeral” instead of staying to die, it’s much better to leave and live, life still has good flowers for you.

One mistake of marriage isn’t big enough to take your life, life should come first before marriage.
I know on the wedding day, they said, “For better for worse, till death do apart” but this saying is man made, it’s from the Western world, it’s a borrowed belief system.

If you réfléchissez and your life is about to be tuned off in marriage, it’s better to leave and live, but let your reason for leaving be sincere and just, it doesn’t matter what the pastor would say, it doesn’t matter what the world will say, of course the mouth was given to talk, but life was given to you to live.
Life has no duplicate, don’t let toxic marriage trample on it so tough-rough to death.

What do you do even when sincere people say to you, you’ve few months to live if you stay in this marriage, in your heart you know it, they tell the truth, what do you do when your funeral blinks at you, when your soul draws near to the grave of your ancestors, what do you do when you know if you continue in this marriage in months you’ll be dead, what would you do if you find yourself in this corner? A corner no prayer, no words, no counselling could help, just leave to live my friend, let the world talk their talkings.

I don’t advocate or support divorce, but when your life is on the line, just leave, I don’t call this divorce, in clear terms you left to live, God understands, He doesn’t judge like men, He sees the intent of all hearts, and He will see your heart that you didn’t actually divorce but left to live.

Leave to live, don’t stay and die, God doesn’t judge like men, He doesn’t see things the way our hearts see it, but remember let your decision be a sincere one, for God sees all hearts.

It isn’t the leaving that God sees but the reason in your heart, when it pertains to leaving to live then Dominis vobiscum, allez! allez!! À l’autre côté la vie est toute belle.

Kanayo Ebuka