Like The Flower Bird

Easy to love, easy to let go.
Hard to love, hard to let go.

People who love easily, when irresistible issues present itself they easily let go without looking back, this is the first genre of lovers.

Now the second genre are people who don’t love easily, it takes time to love, but when they eventually do, they love with their whole life and heart, they are ready to die for love.

But is love worth dying for? When you know if you die his/her life still goes on.
It’s a good thing to love with all your heart sincerely, but don’t stake your life for love’s sake, it worth it not.

Love doesn’t worth dying for, love is worth living for, when you fail in love severally, it doesn’t mean you’ll fail in all, Solomon had 1,500 women if we probe into the Biblical Jewish archives, life gave him all that opportunity.

In matters of love life offers you an endless opportunity, love isn’t endless but your life is endless, yes love will end, but your life is endless, endless to find true love again and again sans cesse.

That you love someone so much doesn’t mean you can never love another after them even much better.
That feeling you can’t find someone better than him when he’s gone is a false one, that feeling she’s irreplaceable is a feeling out of fear, when they are gone, before your eyes are arrayed endless wonderful opportunities much better than every before.

Life is sincere, life is honest, it moves you to a place better than every past, let yourself be moved, over there ahead of you are every him better than “the him” in the past, over there are every her better than “the her” in the past.

It’s a wonderful thing to be given another chance to find love again, some of the things that blinded your eyes in the past won’t have a place any more in this future, some of the folly you sat comfortably on won’t have a place any more in this future.

Why you should cherish finding love again is because it’s an invitation to choose all right and remove all wrong, remember I am talking to the singles not to those “genuinely married” for genuine heart to heart love.

Love crashes dreams, it bites on the tail of hope, but life reassures, in the midst of brokenness life holds back, it gives a renewed hope, for this keep your life, love isn’t worth it to end your endless life, give it days you’re finer.

My friend, you can find love a million times much better than every former, but can you find your life again? not even for once if you lose it.

Being unfortunate in love isn’t being unfortunate in life, because you can always love again and again endlessly, life gives you that opportunity.

Matters relating to love has the tendency to end a life, it has many times in every society of the world, but it’s out of place to allow love end your life, mortal love is earthly, it all ends here, but your life is endless, after love life still goes on.

Human based love is a feeling thing, it resides in the flesh, that’s why we love today and tomorrow we love no more at a time the flesh is attracted to some other thing else.

King Solomon, kept loving till he loved about 1,500 women, if had lived longer he would have loved over a 10,000 women, you can’t be unfortunate in love to give up on your life, you can’t accept to be heart broken forever – let the meaning of life be stronger than the meaning of love at all times.

If we should pull aside the covenant of marriage many married people will be getting married again to another every day, each day that comes presents you something better than every before.

The love you cherished yesterday, the love you found yesterday won’t ever be better than the love you will find tomorrow if you give yourself a sensible chance to truly know yourself before signing in.

The first thing to do before you “ever” think of finding love is to find yourself, i.e., knowing who you’re, this will guide you to find the right person, if you don’t know yourself you will value a wood for a gold, a pig may appear like a lamb to you, all because you don’t know yourself.

It’s easy to avoid mistakes of love and heartbreak when you first discovered yourself, but if you malheureusement made that mistake in the past, I speak the truth, tomorrow you’ll grow and become much better.

Observe all the risky things people do for love, consider the selflessness, most at times life pays for it, and love remains, love and life which one should come first? In the absence of life will there be love? But in the absence love there’s still much life, love is real, we can’t deny its enchanting effect, but let life remain.

The highest point of love is to lay down one’s life for another, God did it, Abraham did it, Jesus did it, the Apostles did it, the early Christians did it, it mattered because they did it for a purpose, but when a man lays down his life for a woman without any good reason, it can’t be called sacrifice but selfish folly.

Some husbands love their wives so much, in a manner they can die for them, we know it, it isn’t a story that men lay down their lives for women, but I want you to consider this, if mortal men can love so deeply to the point of death, guess how much God loves you?

-Kanayo Ebuka