Love Softens The Heart

We have two types of love:
1. Non destructive love
2. Destructive love

Let me talk about non destructive love, the purest example of non destructive love is the love of God for mankind, but you see we can’t love like God, He gave His all, we are humans, we love like humans, to approach it, I will make reference to Jacob and Rachel type of love to discuss a non destructive human love.

Love is a universal thing, it isn’t an activity reserved only for humans, God is love, so there’s an element of love in everything He created.

Even the spirits do love, it’s recorded angels fell in love with the daughters of men, wicked spirit, mermaids also fall in love, this gives rise to spiritual husbands and wives.

Love is true, love could be dynamic or static, dynamic love breaks the heart, while static love lasts forever.

Often at times we hear people say, “There’s nothing like true love” some say they can never love again, and all that, this sort of statement stems from a mark of heartbreak, but no heartbreak is strong enough to stop the heart from loving again.

It isn’t the heartbreak that counts, but finding true love, no matter how many times the heartbreaks, one true love will fix it all up, instead of complaining and dwelling in heartbreak, seek for true love.
When you find true love, it erases all past, it erases every past betrayal and surprise.

We can’t be too righteous or pretend we are too holy to meddle in matters of love.
Love is human, love is spiritual, love is physical, you must combine these to understand love.

If you examine the Jacob-Rachel type of love, it was based on the fact she was beautiful, that’s a physical feature, you can’t put aside looks and appearance in matters of love.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so there must be something that buckles the attraction before even considering the spiritual aspect.

Love is 50% physical and 50% spiritual, if you only put into consideration the spiritual side without the physical midtones you’ll miss it.

There are many women who were called damsel, beautiful, pretty in the Bible, you see even the Bible recognises appearance has a role to play in matters of love.

There’s no way you can love someone whose appearance doesn’t appeal to you, that chemistry is initiated by sight, afterwards other things that relate to spirituality and character are considered.

That type of love that is Godly can’t break your heart, in matters of love, ask God questions before you take a concrete step, don’t be distracted by the fact she’s a damsel, just inquire.

Love can kill, but true love can keep a life, and love can destroy one’s destiny, it all depends on how you chose to approach it.

Let he who comes before love come with sincere intention, love can judge you right, it can also judge you wrong, it sees your heart, love knows, love understands more than what we feel, love isn’t just a feeling thing, love is a call to attain inner social perfection.

Believe in true love, heartbreak is a difficult thing to deal with, but true love offers a recovery, and there’s no mean way to find true love outside divine direction.

-Kanayo Ebuka