Sex Is An Enemy Of True Love

Where there’s true love sex doesn’t come too quickly, it comes last and at the right time, it will be difficult for a man who truly loves you to talk about sex, the first thing that beclouds his mind is how to make you a better person, and how to raise the frequency of your happiness and dream.

Yes sex is a gift from God, but where there’s true love it comes last and at the right time.
When you love someone deeply from your soul, you forget there’s anything like sex, even when she gives you signs to do it or asks for it, you find it difficult to allow because what you feel for her is deeper than sex.

This isn’t a matter of being more righteous than Abraham, it’s a matter of truth, it’s a matter of what true love is.
If you haven’t been there, you won’t understand this, if you’re there already understand this, love is a beautiful thing, but true love doesn’t walk in pari passu with sex, they’re opposite.

Some will say to you, how are you sure he truly loves you when he has refused to make love to you? Tell them sex is an enemy of true love. True love is light, true love is purpose, true love is patient, true love is life.

When he loves you truly, you both can share the same bed for days, weeks or months without sex coming into play. Sex is good, it beautifies the woman, it relieves her to express her being, it’s a mechanism of rejuvenation.

But when true love meets sex, it feels like forever, it’s one of the greatest feelings in human history ask those who are living that life.
Lust mimicks love; sex mixed with love out of time or reason is lust.
When you see a girl and the first thing that drops into your mind is sex, then it’s not love, even when you tell her you love her, in your heart you know it’s all a lie.

If you love her so much the way the trees love water, try your best to keep sex out of the equation, if sex comes in you may lose her.

God gave us Jesus He was His all, the same way, a women’s body is her all and all, she values it more than everything else, respect her, honor her, be true to form and stay forever.
Again, her body is more important to her than everything she values, she gave it on trust so that you will love her truly forever in return.

It doesn’t matter who she’s, her status, her wealth means nothing to her, her body is her all, she can give up everything she has in exchange to keep and protect her body, when she gives you her body, she has nothing more than that to offer you.

She expects you to respect her, and honor her when she has given you her body, her heart breaks when you don’t appreciate her, or betray that trust, nothing hurts more than that.
Don’t think if you make love to her you’ve won her forever, where there’s sex in the beginning love begins to grow cold in her mind, she has seen it all she ponders.

Love has a meaning when sex isn’t in the equation, she feels respected and loved when her body isn’t the price to prove her love and sincerity.

To keep her in trust and value of purpose close to your life, just subtract sex till you’re married.
This isn’t only a matter of righteousness many are righteous but they still misbehave in this regard. Be disciplined, practice this formula and buy me a coffee later.

– Kanayo Ebuka