The Beauty Of Love making

Why I don’t believe in making love to a girl who isn’t my wife is because s*x it isn’t fun, it’s an exchange, you give and receive.
God created marriage and also spiced it up with love making. We can’t separate quality lovemaking from marriage. To keep marriage juicy sound love making should be in the equation.

What are you receiving? Blessings or curses depending on the spirit that rules in her.
You deposit something in her, not just that fluid, you deposit invincible materials in her and extract some invincible materials too from her system.

Before you turn off the light, take off your shorts, turn off your senses and jump in, slow down, remember you will receive something from her that can either make you or destroy you.
She is beautiful, with blond hair, blue eyes, dimples, and walks elegantly. This is BCBG! But remember the spirit in her may be very scary to contend with.

Listen, I am a teacher of the truth. S*x and beauty are on two different lanes. Beauty could be deceitful; it has destroyed many men in different ways. Beauty shouldn’t be a s*x attraction, beauty should be attraction to self-examination.
Beauty is golden, but it isn’t golden enough to lure you to have s*x with her, there is more to beauty and s*x than the physical.

When a carnal man sees a beautiful girl, the next impulse he receives is the sexual urge. Separate beauty from s*x so that you can reason better?
S*x is communication, not fun. If there are things she couldn’t understand, just translate the words into s*x and plant them in her; even without saying further words, she will understand.

S*x is a form of saying those words that words themselves can’t solve or say rightly. S*x is a natural rejuvenating energy when it’s done for the right purpose, right reason and in the right manner. It makes the couple look younger. If it’s done on purpose, untimely old age can’t set in.
S*x is a deeper communication; it goes beyond words and physical strength. It’s the outer body talking to the inner body, the soul.

Now you’ve understood what s*x is, do it rightly with your wife, check the pulse of her neck during romance, check her mood around her upper chest, look into her eyes, examine how comfortable she is that moment, calmly communicate those invincible words. Listen to the sound she makes, it isn’t moaning or a bird sound, as many call it; she’s talking to you, understand what she’s saying.
It should be a communication, not a command, you give, she receives and responds for you to interpret. There are routines that govern every human activity.

– Kanayo Ebuka