Everyone knows—your family, your friends—you’re getting married very soon. Your fiancé has seen your parents, made his intentions known, and been truthful about it.
He answered your prayer, you asked for a marriage, and God gave you him, but what did you do? You exchanged the marriage for something that isn’t worth anything.
How did you exchange the marriage? Just because he promised to marry you, you threw yourself overboard, you exchanged your marriage with fornication.
You can’t eat your cake and still have the money you used to buy it. Either you don’t eat the cake and remain with your money, or you give the money out and have a cake. One must work.
With your mouth, you prayed for marriage, God answered, and with your body you destroyed it, so why are you crying he has lost interest in you? It wasn’t his fault, you did.
You have exchanged your marriage many times with fornication, why not change your style, that he promised he would marry you isn’t enough for a bedfare, although it works for some, you’re different, that it worked for some doesn’t mean yours will be the same.
So, baby don’t you cry, what I have to tell you is change your style next time, and he will remain, but this very one, he’s gone, it’s a goodnight, you already exchanged your destiny again with fornication.
Whenever the next person comes, understand it, you have nothing to give in or do to prove anything, fornication isn’t a way to prove your commitment to getting a marriage work, many did that, also did several abortions, took deadly steps to convince him, yet the marriage didn’t work, it rather messed up the chances.
If I must tell you as a friend, the only thing to do is be yourself, don’t put up impressive acts, it doesn’t work on everyone, be sincere enough and truthful to yourself.
-Kanayo Ebuka
