What I Know About Marriage

No one is perfect, but we are made perfect in a union called marriage, where true love and peace exist.
When God gave Eve to Adam, the Bible recorded that Adam felt complete, “perfect” Yes, we aren’t perfect, but in marriage, God completes everything, not perfect in us.

If a man like Pastor Chris and some other heavyweights could make a mistake, you should just slow down and view marriage from a deeper spiritual angle. But it will be simple if you allow God choose for you.

Marriage isn’t everything, but if you must get into it, you must get it divinely right.
Everything isn’t about marriage, our purpose should come first, when you ask me, “Kanayo what do you know about marriage?” I will tell you it’s a home built by God for us to fulfil our purpose, it’s a social communion which gives us the ability to live with someone of like mindset and spiritual disposition to do the will of God on earth, apart from these, every other thing won’t count, even though they may matter humanely but they won’t count in the end divinely.

Marriage isn’t just finding a soul mate or someone to live with, but to find that special one God has destined for you. It changes the music, it redefines your path.
Eve wasn’t a random woman, she was chosen and given to Adam. Will you allow God to choose for you?
What wisdom do we have to choose a wife or husband for ourselves?

I said to God, I am not after marriage, I just want to do your will, fulfil my assignment, but if I must get married, I don’t have the wisdom to find, I don’t have the wisdom to search, only you know the truth, I know the lies.

We may have the wisdom to choose in every other aspect of our lives, but when it comes to marriage, we lack the sense of wisdom. Why you should be careful of the choice you are about to make is that marriage has the energy to send you to Hell or Heaven.

Yes, marriage is an earthly thing, but what if we end up with someone who distracts us from the love of Christ? Someone whose opinions and ours run a kakophonia. It would surely be tough to do the will of God and earn Eternal life.

To live long in the world, the first thing you must do is to marry according to God’s plan for your life, just marry God’s will, trust me when I say you will live your full years on earth.
When we follow God’s plan in terms of marriage it has a way of prolonging our life span, it has a way of making all things perfect.

Nothing beats the happiness of marrying the man/woman destined for you by God, nothing beats the happiness of knowing this is truly where you belong, nothing beats the happiness of knowing yes s/he is the one, that perfect one.

I know no one is perfect, but how can we say what God has ordained isn’t perfect? Things become imperfect when we miss that divine plan.
Every plan of God is perfect, because He knows it all, all we need to do is follow that divine plan and attain perfection.

Put aside every carnality, and seek to attain that perfection offered by marriage. Marriage is beautiful, marriage is powerful, marriage perfects every imperfection in us, and marriage is living with that special one who truly loves you.

Let me talk to you, when you allow God to choose for you, there’s this secret you will discover, you’ll discover, he loves you beyond his energy, he loves you with divine energy from God; just let God choose for you our wisdom and likes aren’t ever enough.

– Kanayo Ebuka