When Looking For A Wife

When looking for a wife, I want you to know there are three types of girls in the society, I understand the genres because I am a teacher.

The first type are the ones who love education but have no serious interest in the things of God, the second type are the ones who know God, but don’t love education and learning, and the third type, they love education and learning, they can do anything for knowledge’s sake, and in addition they know God (i.e., have a personal relationship with God), they spend their daily lives doing good things, when you see them move they are out only to do good things, they can hardly do wrong no matter how strong the push is.

When you are looking for a wife, search for a girl who knows God, loves education, such type aren’t easily moved or deceived, but the stress is, they are rarely seen.

Where can you see them, in the Church? No, in the campus? No, in the market? No, in the office? No, in the boulevard? No, in the metro? No, you can find them in a place I call chance, but most at times, when you find them, they’re already taken by someone who doesn’t know their worth, that’s the irony of life, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

If she loves education and learning but doesn’t know God no matter how knowledgeable she’s she can easily be deceived, if she knows God but doesn’t love education, equally she can easily be distracted.
But if she loves learning but isn’t educated enough, then send her to school, if she loves the things of God but doesn’t know God, then take her closer to God, you can do all these if you are already well informed in the matter.

This is based on direct experience ‘pragmatic sondage’ and discourse, so I know what it’s, I understand the differences, search for a girl who knows God and has an interest in learning new things for the sake of your peace of mind.

It’s the Spirit of God that gives humans power to do good things, it’s the Spirit of God that empowers humans to withstand temptations, so if she doesn’t know God, the Spirit isn’t in her, she is prone to costly mistakes at times.

Hear my personal truth on the matter, at times, it seems to me Heaven permits good girls to marry a man who isn’t all that good to match the way they desire, I do have that personal view the reason Heaven allows it is for for the good girl to change the man, on the other hand, if you observe, good men often end up with bad girls, I want to also believe Heaven permits such inequality of purpose for the good man to change the bag girl.

So if you find yourself living with a woman who you feel isn’t all that good for you, assume Heaven gave you an assignment and brought you together to help her change, and if you find yourself under the roof of a man who you think isn’t all that your type, he is your assignment, work on changing him, I know it’s a difficult assignment that will take time, but with the right formula all will be fine in time.

– Kanayo Ebuka