Where There’s Islam, There’s No Common Sense

That year I was in Abuja province in the office of Immigration Boss to renew my passport, an Hausa girl walked in, civility and courtesy demands I stand up; I stood and waved her to sit, the Immigration Boss called for another seat.

We sat facing each other, she’s posh, young like 23 years, so we got talking, “What’s your name” I asked, the discussion continued, her accent was American, I paused and asked again, “Do you live in the U.S” she responded, “I study in Canada, I am on holiday, I want to renew my passport for IT in Egypt.”
In the middle of the discussion, the Immigration Boss joined, he asked, how many are you in the family, she said, “Two girls and a boy, I’m the second.”

To be brief, her elder sister studied in Canada, after studies, she returned, suitors coming from the window and door without stopping, but her father wouldn’t let her make a choice, according to Islam, daughters have no self-will to choose who they will be with, fathers make that decision even if she doesn’t like it she must accept it, that’s why you see 16 years married to 60 years old, it wasn’t her choice, Islam forced her into such eternal agony.

One day, her father would return and say to her, “Haruna, prepare, your husband is coming tomorrow” she hasn’t seen him, but she can only say, “Yes father” tomorrow a stranger comes and leads her away forever, if she dares n’ say no, she will be killed.

These girls are educated and exposed, lived and studied in Canada, despite these, they have no free will to choose what they want, this is what is applicable to all the girls in the Islamic world.
Islam is a religion formed against woman, and Christians by the Romans, it’s one of the world’s greatest secrets, but I won’t discuss this paragraph in details here because of time.

Looking at the damsel, I felt sorry, it’s what it’s, just like her elder sister, after studies in Canada she will be given to a man totally against her will, may be a one tooth old man.

Putting all her plight into consideration, she appeared innocent and fragile, out of pity, I said, “Will you marry me?” She replied, “You are Igbo from Anambra yes” but in a second, it was like a spirit whispered to her, she realized the consequence, and she said to me, “Do you want my people to kill me, if I marry you, they will kill me” I didn’t mean it by making a coque-based proposal, I only wanted to know her level of tolerance in regards to her fate if she marries against her father’s will.

Wherever you see Islam there’s lack of common sense, Islam is Satan’s whip on humanity.
Marriage isn’t something religion should decide for you, marriage shouldn’t be something parents or siblings should decide, it should be entirely personal.

Some will say, I can’t marry him, he’s a Catholic, he’s an unbeliever, if he’s an unbeliever but you love him, marry him and endeavour to make him a believer, it’s your assignment, it’s a price to pay for love.

Let religion not stop your happiness, even if she a Muslim, but her parents can agree with me, I would consider it as an act of evangelism, because a soul has been saved, I will go ahead marry her and make her a believer. Remember this type of decision favours only men, not women, it isn’t easy to conquer a man but it’s a daily thing to conquer a a woman and give her a new religion and she will be comfortable in it without reasoning good or bad.

-Kanayo Ebuka