Where There’s Love And Trust There’s Heartbreak And Betrayal

Judas Iscariot was one the persons amongst the 12 Jesus loved so much, He trusted him so much, made him the treasurer, although it was already said by the prophets that the Messiah shall be betrayal but there was no particular person chosen for that, it could have been John, Thomas or Peter.

It was in the last days of His life towards the call from the Cross that Jesus discovered it would likely be Judas, still He didn’t expect the betrayal to be so deep in that manner, sold out with a kiss from someone He loved.

Nothing shatters the heart more than betrayal from someone or people you love, even before His heart was pierced on the Cross by the Roman soldiers with a sword, already His heart was broken deep inside by betrayal both from the people He came to save, the Jews, and His trusted Disciple Judas.

I will find enough time later to discuss in details “Where there’s love and trust, there’s betrayal and heartbreak” as it pertains to relationship and spirituality, this is an intro.

It’s a good thing to love, it’s a good thing to trust, it’s part of human nature, you can’t do without love and trust, but what is most important isn’t loving or trusting people but being ready in your heart and emotionally stable to handle any betrayal that may rise.

Some people who aren’t ready for betrayal from the people they care about and love, when it suddenly hits like a riser, they some kind of do unimaginable things.

Heartbreak can only hurt your heart, which is the seat of emotions, but it can’t hurt your soul and spirit, the seat of life.

No matter the heartbreak, you still have your life safe and intact, the heart will heal once you decide to move on.

The past is gone, you can’t bring it forward, you have no interest to share in what was left behind.
After every betrayal and heartbreak, God usually sends a comforter.

The good and better are in the past, before you are the best of things, move forward, see it, all the people who betrayed you in the past aren’t better than the people in your future, you have nothing to worry about concerning the past.

Betrayal and heartbreak have a mission, some don’t happen to hurt you, rather God wants to move you to a better place, just see it.

Most people who suffer heartbreak and betrayal make best choices in later life, because heartbreak happens to move you to a better place out of every lower expectation which your eyes couldn’t see but God sees all tomorrows and has allowed it.

Some betrayals aren’t targeted to destroy you, the main aim of betrayal is to snatch you away from wrong people, wrong persons to a better world.

At times God allows us to go through betrayal and heartbreak for the benefit of showing us what is most important and better options.

Heartbreak from human relationship has the tendency of redirecting your path to achieve your destiny.
Some people when they tell you the story of their life it started from the moment they were betrayed and heartbroken, but in the midst of that emotional chaos they discovered their true personality.

Things may not be going the way it ought to be because you are tied to the wrong person or persons, the only way to shift you away from them is often through heartbreak or betrayal, God knows about it, and you on your part should try to see beyond every heartbreak and betrayal, it hurts your heart but not your soul, it breaks the heart but not the soul, so you have all the chances to be and be the best, give yourself that chance, because your destiny deserves it.

Heartbreak and betrayal aren’t designed to bring you down, it lifts you up, in every heartbreak and betrayal God sends a comforter.

When Jesus told them what was ahead of Him and the type of death He will die, they were heartbroken, but He said to them, “Don’t be heartbroken in hopelessness, I will send you a Comforter.”

When the Comforter came, they all came out from where they were hiding, pulled off the coat of fear they wore all long, and walked into the streets of Jerusalem in all boldness better than before.

To every broken heart, a comforter will come, when he comes your eyes shall see him, and your heart will know it didn’t really break rather God gave you a chance to become who He created you to be.

Forget about every betrayal from the people you trusted, forget about every heartbreak from the people you cared about, wipe your tears, a comforter is on the way.

-Kanayo Ebuka