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Why God Gave Man Higher Understanding Than The woman
God placed the man as the head of the family only for one reason; He gave the man higher understanding, and gave the woman the patience to listen, understand and follow along.
I will approach this matter summarily on four sides; Bible, medicine, psychology and tradition.
God created the man and gave him a higher understanding and wisdom to name all things, and keep everything created in form, Adam was able to do that because God gave him the needed wisdom.
And He made the woman and gave her understanding enough to be led and guided by the man in the garden, but not equal to that of the man, for this she was called Eve, a “part of” the man not equal to the man.
In Ephesians 5:22, God said to the woman, “Obey your husband as you obey the Lord(God).”
Your husband is the God you can see, this is so because God gave him wisdom and understanding higher than you, the one who’s lesser obeys the one who’s higher in every sphere of life.
In 1 Corinthians 14:35, God said to the woman, if you have any questions to ask in the church, ask your husband at home. It’s so because the man has all the answers to any questions she can ask in the assembly of the brethren.
Women excel in measures of verbal ability, but not in verbal anologies, they excel in reading comprehension and writing abilities than men, on average, women are better than men in perceptual speed, they’re classic and adept at retrieving information from long term memory, they don’t forget things easily, they can keep record of things in place for years, a woman has a strong retentive memory, no doubt.
I have studied side by side intelligent girls, they can memorise a while book and remember in writing without missing a word, this is one of the areas of her brain strength.
But men can joggle ideas and items, they’ve superior visuospatial skills.
Cognition is based on gender, there’s an inherent biological difference in how men’s and women’s brain are wired, work and arranged, the women’s are oriented to faces, men to things.
In medicine,e the human brain is gender based, a typed organ with anatomical differences in neural structures, and accompanied by different physiological functions.
So, one’s gender has a direct influence on the brain system and functions.
The total brain size of a man is anatomically larger, it isn’t based on space and but on functions.
The woman’s hippocampus which is ideal for learning and memorization is larger than the man’s. On the other hand, a man’s amygdala, associated with experience of emotion and recollection of love is bigger than a woman’s, for this reason men love genuinely more than women.
God said to the man love the woman, not the woman love the man, God created in the man the brain function to love, that function is smaller in women, where it’s replaced by a mimicry of sentiment, which camouflages love.
In the womb a male child is surrounded and developed by testosterone, this masculine hormone shapes his brain and body in a distinctive way, for the female child in the womb, she is shaped by estrogen, the difference starts from the womb.
Sometimes in shaping the male child, some genetic disorders do occur, which in turn affect the brain and the body due to the disrupted testosterone influence, this defect shifts the brain to a lower competitive level.
The woman has 23 pairs of chromosomes in each cell, generally X chromosomes, while the man has the X and Y chromosomes.
The Y chromosome is responsible for higher brain development and cognitive approach to matters, this Y chromosome lacks in the woman, if she tends to reason like a man, it’s attributed to a defect which may be due to some touch of the Y chromosome when she was in the womb, generally such women tend to exhibit some unfeminine body looks not so perfect like the normal.
The XY(male) can produce the XX (female) when you cross them, but the XX can not produce the XY, the one that produces is superior to the other, out of which the other was formed.
The Y chromosome is the master of cognition, the X chromosome depends on it, it’s derives every essence from it even right from the womb.
I can’t overly disapprove the fact that some women reason better than “some” men, but remember,r such men had some genetic defects during formation in the womb, as a result the Y chromosome wasn’t effective enough to complete its role in brain formation.
If you find yourself in that basket where you reason better than him, know it, it will be difficult for a woman to respect a man she reasons better than, every ideal woman desires a man who has better understanding than her, this will make her to submit and be led to do good things that will in turn further develop her being in the area she finds herself wanting.
It’s a hard thing for a woman who has understanding than you to respect you, a man needs that wisdom to make her obey.
Wisdom and understanding commands respect, respect begets obedience, it’s a dangerous adventure to settle down with a woman wiser than you in understand, how can she respect you when she tells you everything you do, how can she respect you when she’s the one protecting you from harm?
In your place as a man, added to other things, you need that God given understanding to remain responsible, and earn the needed respect from her, no one is ever comfortable around a puppet brain, it can work for you only if she isn’t a phenomenal woman.
An ideal phenomenal woman desires a man she can respect, a man worthy of her obedience, no woman finds it happy to obey a man with lower understanding than her, this you must know for the sake of your peace of mind.
In all these I don’t allude to academic prowess, book work or excellence isn’t a measure of wisdom and understanding, even morons pass exams, so negate that, I am talking about God given understanding, the one passed to you even before you were born.
She knows she’s a woman, her understanding and way of reasoning by creation and nature isn’t enough to sustain her, she longs to see a man who fills this gap, and whenever she finds that man she is ready to respect and obey him, and be led in the path of all good.
One of the key reasons no woman has ever ruled America or Nigeria is based on the lack of the cognition of articulated approach to improvise ideas, if Harris is a man, she would have given a stronger run on the Presidency, but you see no man wants to live in a world governed by a woman due this inborn divine-nature.
God placed the man as the head of the family only for one reason; He gave the man higher understanding, and gave the woman the patience to listen, understand and follow along.
So allow your husband to lead you, if you force yourself in to lead him, you both will fall into a pit of surprise, on the other hand, if he’s not wise enough to lead you, désolée, there’s nothing you can do than to ask God to give him the needed understanding.
Don’t compare yourself to a man in terms reasoning and understanding, God made him a god, you owe yourself that honor to follow his steps, and to avoid the mistake that scares you, settle with a man who has higher understanding, and be ready to obey.
-Kanayo Ebuka
