Marriage
You Can’t Find A Good Woman Twice In Lifetime
It isn’t about having many women, but having a good woman, one good woman in your life is worth better than thousands of women.
You can cast a net into the sea, you’ll catch baskets of fish, but can you catch a Ruby in a net? That is how difficile it’s to find a good woman.
You have to know, no one ever finds a good woman twice in a lifetime, it’s a one time opportunity, if you found her, be good to her, and if your ego is telling you there are many women out there, sit, let me remind you gently, there are rarely a good woman out there, you won’t understand my proverbs until she’s gone.
Have you ever wondered why some widowers find it difficult to remarry? It’s not easy to find a replacement when she’s no longer there, and don’t think you’ll find someone like her when she’s out of your life.
If you don’t value what you have, you can’t value what you don’t have.
There are times we need to make sacrifices, accept it’s all right, even when it’s clear it isn’t all right.
It’s easy to find a good man, but take my word, it isn’t easy to find a good woman, because her emotions and thoughts are controlled by the things outside her, she struggles to balance it within herself and outside herself.
?How to identify a good woman, if she can balance the voices speaking in her head and the voices she hears daily from the outside, then she’s a good woman, there are many voices in the world, it makes and remakes the woman, if she can balance it I say.
King David had many wives, but only one was his darling, only Bethsheba was that woman good enough for him.
Remember, he was married many years before he met Bethsheba.
It isn’t about having many women, but having a good woman, one good woman in your life is worth better than thousands of women, learn from Solomon.
Solomon had about 1,500 women in principle, but they weren’t good, they misled him, they raised bad sons and daughters for Solomon, arrogant and careless children who couldn’t continue the reign.
It takes only a good woman to raise responsible and God fearing children, Solomon was one of David’s last sons, but he was chosen over others because he was raised by a good woman, Bathsheba. A good woman is a gift from God, you know many men are driven by sight, so not everyone is always ready to receive the gift.
-Kanayo Ebuka
